Our staff are here to help you have a great night. Please follow these guidelines so every guest enjoys a safe, respectful visit.
Membership & entry
- You must be at least 21 years old to become a member and attend events.
- Bring a photo ID or your membership card every time you visit.
- A reservation is required for every party. No walk-ins.
- All memberships expire on December 31 of each year.
- TJ's may refuse, revoke, or decline to renew any membership at any time.
Safety & conduct
- Illegal drugs are prohibited on club property, including the parking areas.
- No weapons of any kind — including firearms, knives, mace, and pepper spray.
- Fighting or aggressive behavior is not permitted anywhere on the property.
- Alcohol may be consumed only inside the club. When you leave, please use a designated driver. End of night rooms are available on site if needed.
- No photography. Photos and video of any kind are not permitted on club property — including with phones, cameras, or any other device.
- Phones are fine when used discreetly. Checking messages or coordinating your ride is welcome. Do not hold your phone up as if filming or taking pictures. Staff may ask you to put it away if its use makes other guests uncomfortable.
Consent & respect
- The lifestyle is about friendship among consenting adults. Exchange of money between members or with staff for sexual activity is never permitted.
- Consensual and respectful. All contact must be clearly consensual. Please keep play appropriate for a social lifestyle club; ask staff if you are unsure what is welcome here.
Dress code
- Dress to impress. We may refuse entry or ask you to leave if your attire does not meet our standards. Not permitted: work boots, cut-off shorts, work jeans, sweat pants, camouflage, t-shirts, and muscle shirts.
Personal belongings
- TJ's is not responsible for lost or stolen items. Keep valuables with you. Lockers are available on a first-come, first-served basis — bring your own lock.